I've done a lot of things earn a buck. I won't bore you with my full resume, but lately I've been reminded of the time I worked as a $5/hour shopping mall rent a cop. It was a simple job. Most of our day was spent baby sitting the mall rats and directing shoppers to their destinations. I did learn one thing wearing that tin star. Shopping malls are typically classified as Private Property that is open to public access. I could run anybody I chose off that property. People had a lot of trouble grasping that concept. You open up a place to public access, and they somehow get the silly idea that they have a right to be there.
Privileges vs. rights... I'm always amazed by how much trouble people have grasping these very simple concepts. You have a right to life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness. You don't have a right to access private property even if all your friends are there. If you are a citizen and over 18, you may still enjoy a right to vote unless you have forfeited that right by way of felonious act. You may have a whole boatload of rights, but the last time I checked no place in the constitution of these United States, or any other nation that I can bring to mind, has anybody ever been guaranteed a right to free hosting.
My first blog was one of those political/current event type rant sheets where I just went off about anything that caught my attention. Other than my opinions, which many of my fellow bloggers disagreed with, the blog was safe for all ages. I was aware of blogger and other "free" hosting options, but instead I chose pay in the neighborhood of $100/year for hosting. Not a whole lot, but I don't use a lot of bandwidth, and the plan was actually overkill for my needs. I also chose a similar plan for nothingtodread.com Again, I probably could have opted for a free service, but instead I paid. Why? because I wanted the flexibility to what I pleased with my site. Granted, I also planned to do more than host a blog at the time, but I got lazy. The point is, I wasn't willing to place my self at the mercy of a third party. If my site went down, I wanted to have the right afforded to every paying customer to complain about the service.
People are complaining that Google is censoring nudist content by placing a warning page between their nudist Blogger sites and the world. Personally, I'm having more than a little trouble sympathizing. That "flag button" has been at the top of your blogs for years. Are you honestly that shocked that somebody pulled the trigger, or are you shocked by the fact that Google is out there covering their ass by tossing up a warning? We're in the mall with our genitalia hanging out for all the world to see, and Mrs. Uptightcitizensbrigade walks in on little Johnny jerking off to a nudist photo of the day. What the hell did we think was going to happen? Is there anything wrong with the content of the blogs in question? No! My site is ten times more objectionable than Diary of a Nudist. Does that mean that little Miss. Moral Majority isn't going to complain? NO!
Look, I'm an asshole. I make no apologies for that fact, but the way I see it the whining and the moaning about the appearance of the warning pages on Blogger sites is just another symptom of the crazy sense of entitlement that takes hold in any special interest group. We go from discussing simple non sexual nudity in a welcoming environment, and everything seems rational. We support public breastfeeding, fine. Somehow we eventually break from reality, and it all becomes all so very political. Suddenly we have a RIGHT to offend the public. We have a RIGHT to be nude in the town square. We have a RIGHT to FORCE our neighbors to confront our nude bodies and their irrational attachment to textile products. Gradually we begin to believe that we have a RIGHT to free and unconditional hosting, bandwidth, advertising, and the ability to promote our business without cost or interference. Then we're a little surprised when the public views us as crackpots.
Again, maybe I'm an asshole, but Google by way of Blogger is offering a service to the public, but it is still private property. About the closest thing you have to a right is the right to comply with their terms of service if you want to continue to take advantage of the privilege afforded to you by way of that service. Instead of crying about a business decision that they made in their interest, just say thanks for the free ride, and move on as some of you already plan to do. This isn't a vast conspiracy. It is just common sense.
I'm not going to make a lot of friends with this post. That's a shame, because I generally admire the bloggers who I believe will be the most offended by this post. The people who have been the most hurt by the placement of warning pages leading to their Blogger sites, also produce blogs that are far beyond the reach of what I do here. That said, I have been more than a little put off by the general "political" turn that nudist discussion has taken over the past several months. Maybe it's always been that way. I'm just more aware of it now. As far as the nudist content here at nothingtodread.com. I've been pretty much done with it for quite some time now. I'll continue to post the occasional trip report, but unless I'm writing about what I did sans clothing and where, I really don't see what more there is to say that hasn't already been said.
Recent Comments
Sunday, April 18, 2010 10:33
Glad to be of service Rick
Friday, April 16, 2010 12:47
Thanks for reminding me. It's time to renew my AANR/TNS memberships. Like you, I've been busy surviving. I find the [...]
Thursday, November 19, 2009 05:14
When you have found Utopia, let me know my friend...the closest Utopia I have been able to live in is Sl till this [...]
Tuesday, November 10, 2009 12:24
It's not the first time, place, or situation, in which I've noticed that women often serve the same function as [...]
Tuesday, November 10, 2009 06:19
your article made me laughs and made me angry at the same time...must women be used in every contest and occasion?hugs [...]
Saturday, November 7, 2009 03:14
I wonder who that hostess was *winks*...that work helped me a lot to overcome my shyness ( yes pixel shyness exists) Rl [...]
Saturday, November 7, 2009 02:53
awww so sad you left SL...i fondly remember the fun we had, addcition can be healthy if you have fun and not damage [...]
Saturday, November 7, 2009 02:48
hi...glad i made it here...I agree with some of the things you said.I have visited some nudist sites like the one from [...]
Friday, October 30, 2009 08:05
I'm with you on this one. To say that nudity is never sexual is absurd. I suspect that any object or condition one [...]
Friday, October 30, 2009 08:04
Thank you for your kind words Rick. I'm not sure how well-written my articles are; however, I have found that the flee [...]
Friday, October 30, 2009 07:52
Thanks for pointing me towards the article Rick... I'm not sure how it happened, but I didn't notice that your blog had [...]
Thursday, October 29, 2009 16:00
The Fall 2009 issue of N, had a piece discussing a survey on naturism and sexual well-being [...]
Thursday, October 29, 2009 15:43
It's okay if you don't post much. I think quality should take preference over quantity. I find your posts to be [...]
Wednesday, October 28, 2009 07:32
Well said Nudiarist. I couldn't agree with you more.
Wednesday, October 28, 2009 04:56
Good to see you back. I don't think that anyone has argued that swingers and exhibitionists don't exist in the nudist [...]